I think I might be confusing my five year old daughter when I explain things to her.
“Who’s is this?” I demanded this evening as I prepared to march the kids across the Mullumbimby Showgrounds to the loos.
I was pointing at half a cup of milk, which had obviously been abandoned to fend for itself, like it was a fresh turd.
“That was mine,” admitted Miss5 with a devil may care tone as she pushed past me towards the door.
Then she stopped and faced me and I thought to myself, She’s finally getting it.
Finally she’s understanding that when Daddy is cranky, you need to listen. You need to stop and retrace your steps to see if you’ve done something wrong and perhaps do something to make it better. This was it. She was going to clean up after herself!
It was a sweet parenting moment which, in hindsight, was destined for failure. Because nope.
“I don’t want it,” she said bluntly, and raced off again.
“But…stop….wait…,” my voice followed her out the door, “you have to clean it up!”
Her head popped back in.
“You can have it,” she told me. And disappeared off the bus quicker than…well, a fart in a cyclone. That’ll become pertinent to the story shortly.
This was the point where my wife decided to get involved.
“No, he can’t!” she screamed from further up the bus. “No, you can’t,” she told me in a voice which was so awesomely parental I cleaned up Miss5’s mess. “No milk.”
We’ve dealt with a range of intolerances in this family. From Master12’s emergency room requiring anaphylactic reactions to peanuts – which he thankfully grew out of – to the likelihood of celiac with a few of our girls. Currently we’re basically running a gluten free ship. I say basically because I still eat Turkish bread.
And whatever the hell I want.
I do suffer through twice weekly gluten free spaghetti though for the sake of the children. And YES, I absolutely expect to be nominated as Father of the Year for this. I’m still shirty Tracey didn’t think to fill out an application when I switched to long life milk so the kids could have cereal for breakfast on this Big Lap of ours. What’s a bloke gotta do to get a bit of bling on the shelf?
But the one thing I absolutely can’t have is, even though no tests have confirmed I’ve any sort of a gut issue with it, is a cup of milk – as Master12 was helpfully explaining to Miss5 when I hopped off the bus a few seconds later.
“Dad can’t drink milk because it causes something bad to happen.”
“Yeah,” agreed Miss10. “He farts.”
“A lot,” Miss7 nodded with wide eyes and great vigour.
“It’s true,” I said to Miss5 as I took her hand and we all headed towards the facilities. “Milk goes in one end of me and out the other.”
Which I now realise was a far more confusing concept for our five year old to get her head around than I thought, as evidenced by her comment to me as she exited the toilet.
“I was peeing,” she grinned at me, and then pointed at her bum, “and a little milk came out.”
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